Becoming a versatile personality is key in maintaining an exciting and lasting relationship with your partner. There is no room for bland, boring, or bulgy.
Ideally, everyone would like to believe that their relationship will last forever. But realistically, the chances of hitting 777 on a Las Vegas slot machine, and scoring $100,000 are far more greater than reaching a happily ever after with our mate. And this is precisely what we are doing when we begin a relationship---taking a gamble. In comparison, men and women are like night and day, each of us come with a long list of idiosyncrasies, demands, and baggage. Often times the things on some of these list are definite deal breakers and flagrant fouls. Nonetheless, we sign on for life even though it could mean total disaster down the road.
With this in mind, investing quality time into preparing ourselves for a relationship makes perfect sense. As a whole and complete person--mind, body, and spirit, you will undoubtedly hold yourself to higher standards. How we view ourselves is always mirrored in our interactions with others. When you are feeling good about yourself you are more likely to be more successful at everything you set out to accomplish. This also provides the benefit of allowing your partner to value being in a committed relationship with you as well.
The desire and expectation for another person to remain committed to us comes with a huge responsibilty. It entails a responsibility of keeping the other person interested, intrigued, and excited! Anything less is more like to be deemed a scary lifetime sentence. It is wrong to put forward our best to capture the heart of someone, take them off the market, only to later neglect and ignore them. The same highlights, enthusiasm, and sex appeal it took to attract and reel them in, is same tactics needed to keep them home.
What's your story? How did your partner attract you? How do you keep your mate interested and that fire going? Are you ignored and neglected by your partner? Did you change or grow cold and sour?
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